io_uring: ensure that SQPOLL thread is started for exit

      If we create it in a disabled state because IORING_SETUP_R_DISABLED is
set on ring creation, we need to ensure that we've kicked the thread if
we're exiting before it's been explicitly disabled. Otherwise we can run
into a deadlock where exit is waiting go park the SQPOLL thread, but the
SQPOLL thread itself is waiting to get a signal to start.

That results in the below trace of both tasks hung, waiting on each other:

INFO: task syz-executor458:8401 blocked for more than 143 seconds.
      Not tainted 5.11.0-next-20210226-syzkaller #0
"echo 0 > /proc/sys/kernel/hung_task_timeout_secs" disables this message.
task:syz-executor458 state:D stack:27536 pid: 8401 ppid:  8400 flags:0x00004004
Call Trace:
 context_switch kernel/sched/core.c:4324 [inline]
 __schedule+0x90c/0x21a0 kernel/sched/core.c:5075
 schedule+0xcf/0x270 kernel/sched/core.c:5154
 schedule_timeout+0x1db/0x250 kernel/time/timer.c:1868
 do_wait_for_common kernel/sched/c